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Shocked by the scale and the audacity of them, yes, but not remotely surprised. When Angela Merkel announced her decision to take in , refugees this summer , my sisters and I immediately predicted that this was going to lead to big problems for Western women. For the next two years we were leered at, jeered at, hissed at, groped and touched, again and again and again, every single time we left the house.
The only time this treatment lessened was if we went out with my father. The guards responded by hooting and laughing and shoving their pelvises at me. Of course, not all Muslim men behave this way. Not all Muslim societies allow such misogynistic behaviour. I have never been insulted by, say, a sub-Saharan African Muslim or an Indonesian. For example, when we were in Turkey, dark-haired Western women suffered significantly less harassment and we concluded that this was happening because we were pale and blonde.
They associate us with the peroxide performers they see involved in sexual acrobatics in pornographic films and assume this is an accurate portrayal of who we are. To me, this is akin to thinking all Arab and North African-looking men must be suicide bombers because the terrorists we see on TV look like them.
Such a blanket association would, rightly, not be acceptable in liberal, Western society. Yet this same society seems to shy away from holding men from Muslim backgrounds to similar standards. It is this that disturbs me almost as much as the mass sexual molestation in Germany. It makes me fear for the future. To begin with the police in Cologne tried not to publicise the ethnicity of the attackers. Perhaps she thinks they should cover their hair too?
I gave up talking to people about how I was treated by Muslim men a long time ago. Most became uncomfortable, muttered things about cultural sensitivity, or accused me of racism. Yet Islam is not a race, it is a religion; a belief system, a set of cultural constructs and values that are open to interpretation and change. Being white, blonde and female, on the other hand, are constants.